How to Speak More Clearly as an INFJ

Do you have a hard time putting what’s in your head into words? Do you wish you could speak more clearly and that others understood you better?

If you answered “yes,” you’re not alone. Many INFJs struggle to keep their words succinct and to-the-point because there’s so much going on in their minds all at once. At any given moment, an INFJ may be…

  • Tracing patterns
  • Searching for underlying meanings
  • Processing verbal and nonverbal signals
  • Replaying a prior conversation
  • Wrestling with deep questions
  • Figuring out which feelings are hers and which are someone else’s
  • Planning the future
  • Etc.

The INFJ mind is a gift and curse: it allows an INFJ to make incredible connections, see the big picture, and predict likely futures. But it also makes clear, linear communication a challenge.

And to-the-point, straightforward talk is what most people in the world are looking for.

The good news is that you can improve your communication skills. If you’d like to get better at sharing what’s on your mind clearly and concisely, check out these five strategies.

Are you an INFJ who wants to speak more clearly? Yes? Check out this article to learn 5 ways you can improve your verbal communication.

How to Be More Confident as an INFJ

Do you ever wish you had more confidence?

A lot of INFJs do. Most are intelligent, creative, caring people, but they fall prey to feelings of inferiority and brokenness because they think and behave so differently than the rest of the world.

It doesn’t help that INFJs tend to be perfectionists either. While they often extend grace to others, they’re demanding of themselves.

And when the world constantly reminds you that you’re different and you have to measure up to your own high standards, it’s easy to start beating yourself up. It’s no surprise, then, that many INFJs could use a confidence boost.

The good news is that your confidence is like a muscle: You can strengthen it through regular exercise. Here are 5 ways to do just that.

How can you be a more confident INFJ? Don't let feelings of inferiority and brokenness boss you around anymore. Try these 5 things to boost your confidence!

How to Have the Perfect Day as an INFJ

How do you have the perfect day as an INFJ?

By “perfect day” I’m referring to the way you’d organize your day if you were completely in control of it.

Many of us work jobs or have responsibilities that require us to begin the day working in an area of weakness while leaving our strengths on the shelf. For instance, you may have to start by cooking breakfast for your family or you may have to answer emails first thing in the morning at your job when you’d rather be learning, advising, or creating.

Elaine Schallock of PersonalityJunkie.com theorizes that, if given the choice, INFJs would be happiest working through their functional stack, or four mindsets, starting with our greatest strength and ending with our weakness. Would scheduling your day as I describe in the rest of the article make it more meaningful, productive, and enjoyable?

What would the perfect day for you, an INFJ, look like? How would you organize it so that you get to do what you love? Here are some ideas!

How to Find the Best INFJ Career for You

What’s the perfect INFJ career?

Recently, I’ve corresponded with INFJ…

  • Nurses
  • Screenwriters
  • Actors
  • Landscape architects
  • Furniture designers
  • Artists
  • Graphic designers
  • Editors
  • Art instructors
  • Child development specialists
  • Counselors
  • Teachers
  • Musicians
  • Writers

And that’s by no means an exhaustive list. It just gives you an idea of the scope of opportunities available to INFJs seeking meaningful work. Almost every INFJ I’ve ever met has struggled at some point to find work that excites her. She wants a job she’s passionate about that makes a difference in the world, and she wants to be able to express her creativity, original thought, and uniqueness. But given the above list, there’s clearly no one-size-fits-all job for the INFJ.

There are, however, several guiding principles you should keep in mind as you pursue fulfilling work.

What's the best INFJ career for you? What factors do you need to keep in mind as you search for work you'll love? Read this post to learn 4 major ones!

5 Introvert Super Powers that Make You a Great Networker

How to Lean into Your Introvert Gifts to Be a Better Networker

Believe it or not, your introversion gives you a networking advantage. This runs contrary to popular belief and perhaps your own experience.

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You and I both know that, as introverts, we lose energy when talking to a group of new people. What’s more, we despise small talk. Really, we’d rather be at home with a book or with a few close friends than at a networking function of any size.

But, truth be told, your introversion is really a gift, when it comes to networking. Check out 5 ways your introversion makes you an extraordinary networker.

Your introversion makes you a stellar networker for several reasons. It's time to start using your strengths to build more great relationships!

How to Become a Better Networker by Changing Your Thoughts

Are you an introvert wanting to take your networking skills to the next level?

Changing your thoughts can make all the difference in your networking success. In this episode of the I Speak People Show, author Michal Stawicki explains why the ways you think about yourself, other people, and networking make an enormous difference in your ability to network. Over the course of the interview, we discuss…

  • Personal Development – especially as it pertains to the way you think about yourself
  • Common problems introverts face when they network
  • Solutions to those problems
  • The importance of generosity and consistency in networking
  • A slew of powerful books

Thoughts are powerful. Learn how changing the way you think about yourself and other people can improve your ability to connect with network.

7 Reasons Every Introvert Needs a Blog

How to Have a Voice in a Noisy World

One of my introvert friends has been blogging for a while, and only I just found out. When I read his work for the first time, it gave me goosebumps. He has the gift, and I’d wager you do too.

As an introvert, you are especially well equipped to write. In The Introvert Advantage, Martin Olsen Laney, Psy.D. explains that the pathway from an introvert’s brain to her mouth is longer than the same pathway in an extrovert. Extroverts are wired to talk, while introverts are born to reflect, and reflection is essential to good writing.

Jennifer Kahnweiler, in her book Quiet Influence, also underscores the fact that introverts are writers. She says writing gives introverts time to get their thoughts together and present them exactly how they want to. It incorporates research too, which is another introvert strength. Introverts excel at finding and incorporating ideas that make their work both interesting and compelling.

Check out these seven reasons YOU need a blog – even if you don’t think you do.

Some of the best bloggers are introverts: Blogging gives them a voice in this noisy world. Check out 7 reasons every introvert needs a blog.

4 Proven Ways to Boost Your Energy (Podcast)

What would you do with more energy?

As an introvert, you need to be especially careful with how you spend your energy. In this episode of the I Speak People Show, you’ll learn four proven ways you can boost your energy as an introvert. 

To help you apply what you learn today, make sure you grab a copy of the Boost Your Energy for Introverts Checklist.

Want to know how to boost your energy if you're an introvert?! Check out this post to learn 4 proven ways any quiet person can increase her energy.

4 Proven Ways to Boost Your Energy for Introverts

My fellow introvert, is there actually a way for YOU to boost your energy?

YES!!!

If you ever…

  • Drag yourself inside the door after work…
  • Put up with lightheadedness after spending too much time in a loud or noisy environment…
  • Lock yourself away in your room for a couple hours (or days or weeks) just to resuscitate…
  • Wish you had more time to yourself to think without interruption…

And if you know what it’s like to feel…

  • Burned out…
  • Fried…
  • Depleted…
  • Spent…
  • Exhausted…

Then, you know the struggle of having to guard your energy. It’s one EVERY introvert faces. Being introverted means you need time to yourself to recharge. 

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Understand that important principle and YOU CAN boost your energy! You just need to make some very doable adjustments to get your lifestyle working with your energy.

Consider four simple – yet profound – ways to boost your energy!

Want to Boost Your Energy?! Download the free checklist: Boost Your Energy for Introverts!

Want to know how to boost your energy if you're an introvert?! Check out this post to learn 4 proven ways any quiet person can increase her energy.

What Goes on in the World of the Introvert Mastermind?

An Interview with INTJs

What’s it like to be an INTJ and how can you know if you or someone you know is one?

In this show, you’ll hear about…

  • How INTJs manage energy
  • How INTJs approach organization
  • What INTJs think about
  • How INTJs handle major decisions
  • INTJ strengths
  • And more…

Want to figure out your personality type for free?! Download this free resource!

What's it like to be an INTJ and how can you know if you or someone you know is one? Check out this show for the answers and to better understand INTJs.